Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Reflections #1 Holidays


Over the next few posts, I’ll be writing about my reflections from my time away on holidays.  I wrote them all at the same time, and they are al quite long, so perhaps make a cuppa first! 

For starters, holidays for me, is a difficult concept.  It’s difficult to set aside the time in the year.  I really love my life, so it’s difficult to be away for a significant period of time, knowing that you’ll miss out on the special events, as well as the day-to-day events.  It’s also difficult to prepare for – being super organized and having everything done in advance, plus catching up on everything once you get back.  Despite all that, as holidays were drawing near, I knew I was ready for it, and needed it!  I was feeling exhausted, drained (in more ways than one), and ready for a break!

There were some things I figured out over the last three weeks.

Fear: I had to face so many experiences, where I felt so nervous, to the point that I was afraid.  Whether it was fear of things totally out of my control – airport dramas – or fear that I would make a mistake and end up spiraling into disaster!  Of course, everything always works out (something Biblical about that, right!) and I have no need to fear, but it was good to be able to work through all that, and get to a point where I could say, “It’ll be alright” … till the next thing!!

Experiences: Something that I noticed that was interesting, was my emotional reaction to new experiences.  On day 1, in Canada, I could not get over how amazing the snow was.  By day 5, I didn’t even notice it, because I’d been wow-ed by the Rocky Mountains.  And yet, I felt the same way at every new experience! “It’s AMAZING!”  Also, I was thinking one day, how can the same girl, get so excited over a frozen lake, a basketball game, and the Declaration of Independence.  It’s weird how the different things I experienced were so broad, one individual couldn’t possibly be interested in all of them, but I was so excited about all of them!  Then I realized, it’s probably less about my love for the outdoors, sports and history, and more about this intense excitement over experiencing something new, something so out there, I felt like I was in a movie!  “This doesn’t happen in real life!!”

Church: I could not believe how refreshing it was to attend different Churches while I was away.  It’s not just that they were new, and different, but I was so encouraged and refreshed to be able to just attend.  As I thought about it, I realized that there is something amazing about following someone into Church, being welcomed as a visitor, worshipping and learning, meeting new people, without the burden of ministry.  Of course, all of life is ministry, and it’s possible to minister even as a visitor, but to go to a Church where you didn’t have to serve, to welcome or to work was so wonderful, and just what I needed for holidays!

No phone:  I haven’t had access to my phone since I’ve been away.  While I’ve been checking and responding to emails, not being able to use my phone has actually been amazing.  A few people have emailed asking to call me, and had I had my phone, I know I would have done that, despite being on holidays.  But not having access to my phone has been pleasantly isolating!

People: This relates to all the places I went to, and is not meant to be negative in any way, it’s just my initial reflections!  I have been to a few different countries by now, and there is no doubt about it, I find Aussies to be the best relationally – I’m not sure what it is, but my guess is that we see people as mates from the start – and I think there’s genuine interest!  In my travels, I found Americans to be so good socially, (I think they really just love the fact that I am Australian!) excited to put themselves out there to meet an Aussie (see #3).  Canadians, I found less so, but I thought they were far more practical in the way they related (see #2).

My day by day journal is here: http://www.tripcolor.com/user/50783/trip/49369-North-American-Adventures


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